Commentary
After more than 30 years leading hospitality and real estate businesses, I’ve watched organizations spend enormous amounts of time and money trying to create the right culture while ignoring the behaviors that define it.
Leaders want integrity, creativity, honesty, and accountability. Yet too often, they create environments that discourage those very qualities.
In my book, “You Already Have a Culture—and It’s a Reflection of Your Leadership,” I challenge six assumptions about how organizations should be led.
First, why do values matter if leaders aren’t willing to defend them?
Every company claims to value integrity and accountability. But what happens when the top salesperson breaks the rules or an executive delivers results by mistreating employees?
When leaders look the other way because someone is too valuable to lose, they make their values clear: performance matters more than principles.
Ethics aren’t tested when doing the right thing is easy. They’re tested when it costs something. Values on a wall are meaningless unless leaders defend them when the stakes are high.
Second, why do conventional diversity initiatives sometimes miss the barriers that prevent people from succeeding?
Debates over diversity, equity, and inclusion often become arguments about labels and programs. Meanwhile, organizations can overlook the everyday obstacles that determine who gets opportunities.
Are hiring and promotion decisions fair?
Do favoritism, personal connections, and unwritten rules determine who advances?
Can talented people contribute without being judged by assumptions unrelated to their abilities?
Diversity matters to a healthy culture and can strengthen business performance. But initiatives alone cannot guarantee fairness. Breaking down barriers requires clear standards, fair access, and leaders willing to challenge practices that keep talented people from succeeding. Diversity can serve as a barometer of fairness within an organization.
Third, why do we continue to treat people as resources to be managed?
We call employees “human resources,” as though people were interchangeable assets on a balance sheet. Then we delegate responsibility for them to HR and wonder why leadership becomes disconnected from the workforce.
HR has an important role, but it cannot replace managers’ responsibility to lead. Leaders must set expectations, resolve conflicts, coach performance, and build trust. You cannot outsource relationships and expect extraordinary results.
Fourth, why do leaders believe an open-door policy creates meaningful relationships?
It doesn’t—not by itself. Neither does management by walking around when it substitutes for genuine connection. An open door means little if employees don’t trust the person behind it. Walking around accomplishes little if conversations stay superficial.
Perhaps the worst expression of failed leadership is the familiar declaration, “It’s not personal; it’s business.” People aren’t machines. Business decisions affect livelihoods, ambitions, and families.
Treating people with dignity isn’t weakness; it’s a leadership responsibility.
Creativity flourishes when leaders know their people, listen to their ideas, and make it safe to challenge conventional thinking. You don’t unleash talent by managing people at a distance—you do it by connecting with them as individuals.
Fifth, why do organizations mistake the loudest voice in the room for consensus?
Too many meetings reward volume over insight. People who dominate discussions can drown out better ideas, while others stay silent because disagreement carries a professional price.
Leaders must distinguish genuine agreement from reluctant silence. Invite dissent and ensure decisions reflect thoughtful consideration—not simply the preferences of whoever speaks loudest. If everyone appears to agree, find out whether they actually do.
Finally, why do leaders try to roll out culture like a software upgrade?
Culture isn’t a program you install. It’s the accumulated result of decisions, behaviors, incentives, and standards. It reflects what leaders reward, tolerate, and defend.
If you want a different culture, change the leadership behaviors producing the existing one. Stop tolerating the high performer who poisons the workplace. Stop rewarding conformity while demanding innovation. Stop preaching accountability while excusing your own failures.
Leaders don’t choose whether their organizations have a culture. They choose whether to take responsibility for the one they’re creating.
Stop launching initiatives to fix your employees. Start examining your leadership.
You already have a culture. It reflects your leadership and the values you’re willing to defend. The question isn’t whether your culture needs to change. It’s whether you have the courage to change yourself.
Views expressed in this article are the opinions of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Epoch Times.






















